My sis is getting married in 2 years and I have been kinda asked to not have my dreadlocks for the wedding and also not a shaved head either. Im trying to stand my ground, saying that I will keep my dreads and if they dont want me with dreads for the wedding I wont be in the bridal party. But thats not an option either. Mum sees my dreads as just hair, hair grows and I can always have them after the wedding again. I got told that Im being a child by not wanting to get rid of them for my sisters wedding in order for her to have a perfect day.
In wanting to keep them am I being selfish or childish and not being considerate for my sisters feelings and special day?
They dont see that I want to keep them as they are a part of me. I keep them neat and tidy.
What are others opinions?
Also has anyone got pics of hairstyles for formal events and weddings?
Any dreadies that'd care to help someone who lives in Milwaukee, Wisconsin to come out Philadelphia and find a play of employment and a cheap place to stay. Preferably vegan and it wouldn't be until like January. I'm posting in here because I would like a place to work that actually doesn't mind dreadlocks because my work right now may be firing me due to them.