;alright all you lovelies, last night i had a dream i was "getting" dreads i was backcombing my hair and was ridiculously happy while doing it. i've been bouncing back and forth with getting dreads for a while now. i mean i've had three sets already. my last one i let form naturally (and boy did they form fast!) however i combed them out after about 4 months because i was tired of hearing my mother tell me how ugly i looked and how bad i smelled (iwashed my hair everyother day!) i love dreads but i also love my curly crazy hair so im torn. anywho, I've been trying in vain to get rid of the red in my hair. it just wont go away. i dont want red dreads. I've tried dying my hair blonde twice but it didnt take. if any of you have any tips on how to get rid of red please please please let me know! i wont get it professionally done.....i think the last time i let someone else cut my hair was 4 or 5 years ago and that was a trim. Thanks guys!