then this conversation ensued:
[raven] I'll try to remember to wash with dish soap before I come over to make him extra ornery...
[lish] eh not really necessary, that's VERY drying & your hair's already rough from bleach
[raven] fair enough, then
[raven] I was just surprised at how soft he was when he fell out...
[ldaelnar] yah it happens, but you don't want to destroy your hair or it'll never survive getting long
* raven pauses
* raven rereads what he just typed